give it up for dennis prager, ladies

December 24, 2008 · Filed under Clown Hall, vagina hatred

The twice divorced Dennis Prager has some advice for the ladies: Put out or get out.

The subject is one of the most common problems that besets marriages: the wife who is not in the mood and the consequently frustrated and hurt husband.

There are marriages with the opposite problem — a wife who is frustrated and hurt because her husband is rarely in the mood. But, as important and as destructive as that problem is, it has different causes and different solutions, and is therefore not addressed here. What is addressed is the far more common problem of He wants, she doesnt want.

It is an axiom of contemporary marital life that if a wife is not in the mood, she need not have sex with her husband. Here are some arguments why a woman who loves her husband might want to rethink this axiom.

First, women need to recognize how a man understands a wifes refusal to have sex with him: A husband knows that his wife loves him first and foremost by her willingness to give her body to him. This is rarely the case for women. Few women know their husband loves them because he gives her his body (the idea sounds almost funny). This is, therefore, usually a revelation to a woman. Many women think mens natures are similar to theirs, and this is so different from a womans nature, that few women know this about men unless told about it.

The best part? This is only Part I:

In Part II, I will explain in detail why mood should play little or no role in a womans determining whether she has sex with her husband.

Some advice for Prager: Go for the hat trick, and in Part III explain in detail why ‘marital rape’ is an oxymoron.

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